Sexy Red’s Naughty Confessions

I pose nude on a website, does that mean I’m nasty? I try to keep my posts sexy but tasteful. But, tastes are different. So, what I think is tasteful you may think is nasty or even the other end of the spectrum - boring!

I try to create photos that I enjoy looking at. I always get my husband’s point of view, too - after all, he is a man & my goal is to make my site appealing enough that guys want to take a second look. I also am at a place in my life where I can freely explore my sexuality. OH WHAT FUN that’s been!

I never knew what I liked as far as sex until I tried it. The same goes true for the different types of pictures I take. Plain old vanilla sex pics are fun - you know, posing - looking sexy, ready to screw your brains out photo sets.

Then, I started getting emails about my feet so I explored the foot fetish stuff & discovered that was fun too! So, my attitude now is - you never know until you try it!

Wet sets - too much fun…and knowing how much my wet fans love it sure does get my juices flowing! LOL. Messy - I’ve not taken as many of these…but they are fun too - I’m looking for more ideas for this one!

So…what I like & think is nice can definately be naughty. If you like your gals on the naught side with a little bit of nasty thrown in, then my site might be the one that gets your hard on growing. That’s what it’s all about!

I’ve been in three different stores that sell adult sex products. The first time I had ever been in one was with my husband, and yes just like the last post, it was about 18 years ago.  The last 2 visits to new stores occurred just this past weekend, and last summer. I grew up rather sheltered, so to park the car in the parking lot of the one store was a major accomplishment for me. I’ve come a long way BABY!

The big deal about the latest sex store visit was that I was atually the one who decided to go - usually I am dragged along LOL. Boy, did my husband perk up at my suggestion that we go browse thru the dildos, vibrators & blow up toys.

The store we went to was small & didn’t have a great selection, but we still had fun looking at all of the toys. Big dicks, small dicks, blue, pink, green & glow-in-the-dark dicks. These stores aren’t really female friendly (IMHO), which is probably why in my area there is a growing network of home parties that sell “personal pleasure items.” 

The biggest hit from patrons always seems to be the “rabbit” vibrator made famous by the show, “Sex in the City.” They don’t interest me…I already have one…& YES, it is a great toy . This trip we looked at a butterfly stimulator - it has straps that hold it in place over the clitoral region. I’ve researched them on-line (the best place to look - you can browse in private - delivered in brown wrappers - for closet sex freaks!!!). I didn’t buy one, but I may go back.

What did I buy? An inflatable cock to play with in the swimming pool when I get to shoot an update for my website. My husband said he should have known I was looking for something to take pictures with, after all - I am an attention whore (see my first blog…).

My first orgasm was a long time ago - nearly 18 years ago! Wow! But I remember it like it was yesterday. Thinking about it makes my stomach flip-flop LOL! Hmmmm…opps, sorry - I get distracted thinking about it!

It was the day after my husband & I had moved into our new apartment. We’d been together two years & had lived in a tiny apartment with neighbors above, below & on each side. The new apartment was over a small business, so after 5 o’clock we had the entire place to ourselves!

My husband has always been an attentive lover & he was my first - but I had never felt comfortable letting go when we were having sex after a neighbor in our old apartment had called the rental office to complain we were too loud. Heck, we were only laughing & wrestling then - so I stayed a bit uptight.

On this night my parents were watching our baby so we could straighten up the apartment. We ordered pizza & sat on the living room floor to eat. Soon we were feeling pretty frisky & he started eating my pussy right there. I gave n to the intense pleasure & felt my body begin to quiver from my toes. The feeling rose up my body until I could feel my ears become hot. What I didn’t realize at the time was I had been moaning loudly the entire time!

Remember - I never made noise before LOL! My husband was so excited. The pounding he gave me after this was amazing! We fucked 2 more times that night! I know I may never have had an orgasm if my husband wasn’t a patient lover who really cared that I feel good, because it took a good 45 minutes of his tongue massages until I finally came. Thank you Baby!

Each time I achieved orgasm, it became a little easier. Now, I come every time we have sex - sometimes more than once. After a while, I didn’t even need to make noise - which is good since we’ve had 2 more kids since then & I’ve reverted to my “silent” mode . 

I’m now making phone calls with NiteFlirt - Click the button to talk to me! 

Yesterday, I wrote about my Monday update to my website. This update will feature pics of me squirting. Squirting is a topic that comes up alot when I talk to friends who are swingers. Wikipedia defines squirting as:

Female ejaculation (also known colloquially as squirting or gushing) refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the urethra during orgasm.

I remember the first time I ever squirted. It was a couple of years ago right after my husband & I joined a swing site & started chatting to couples. I really started to get turned on with all the talk about sex & the anticipation of meeting a couple to possibly swap with.

One night we were going at it in my favorite sexual position - doggy style - when I felt a pressure in my pelvic area. I’d been feeling this before & had always said I thought I had to pee. Hubby had been telling me to relax - that I was really getting ready to have a good cum. I didn’t believe him so I always held back. This time, though, I knew I didn’t have to pee - I’d just went to the bathroom. So I followed his advice & a gush of hot liquid surrounded his dick and ran down both our legs. He came almost immediately. We talked about this experience for over an hour afterwards.

I didn’t always squirt after that. I would once & a while. I never squirted during a swap until I’d been with the other guy a couple of times. Over time it has become easier. Now, I can come just about whenever I want to. I soak the bed almost nightly & never fuck without a thick towel LOL.

It’s fun to do, fun to talk about, fun to share. I’ve even squirted during the first webcam I did on ImLive. I recorded the cam session & cammers rent it regularly.

Some friends were talking about teaching someone else to squirt. Now that sounds like fun! Where do I sign up????

It’s finally warm here! I spent the day outside working on a refinishing a door & enjoying the sun. Scraping paint really gives me time to think. What do YOU think goes through my head at times like this? What a stupid question, LOL, of course SEX.

Today I was specifically thinking about the photo shoot my husband and I did yesterday for my website. We went to a wooded park near our house. It was early, and we figured no one would be there since it was a weekday & school is still in session. Well, there were a few people there, but we still managed to take a few pictures LOL - actually a LOT of pictures. Probably enough for 3 different updates!

This was only the 2nd time we’ve taken pics outside. As we took pictures I really was turned on. It is so exciting to be scantily dressed on a cool spring morning, in the sun knowing there is a chance I could get caught as I flash my boobs & show a peek of pussy as I lay on a tree or sit on a rock.

We took some pics on of me playing on a slide - my husband just about lost it! I could see his dick bulging through his pants he was getting so excited as I showed my white panties while sitting at the top of the slide. Since I enjoy teasing him, I couldn’t resist pulling the crotch of my panties aside to give him a peek of my soaking wet pussy. To my surprise, I could feel the excitement building in the pit of my stomach! What fun I was having.

We took a walk into the woods & found a bridge crossing a small brook. The sun was shining through the leaves & the lighting was awesome. The bridge was rustic & we both knew that pictures taken on it would look great.

As I posed on the bridge, the excitement just overwhelmed me & before I knew it cum was gushing out of me like a fountain! The camera snapped away & my husband was able to get excellent pictures of me squirting right there in the wilderness! I can’t wait to post this update on my site Monday! My members are in for a special treat! It will be the first update with pics of me squirting! Can you tell I’m excited? I’m getting wet just thinking about it!

This past weekend I did something I’ve never done before. It was so fun and gave me a real sense of freedom. What did I do? POLE DANCE at a Swinger’s Club.

A group of girls with websites on Southern Charms had got together at Club Temptations in Dayton, Ohio to do some photo shoots. There it was - the stripper pole. As the day went on, different girls would take their turn posing on the stage. I was hesitant - I was new & feeling a little shy (yes, even naughty girls who pose nekkid on the internet sometime feel hesitant about taking it all off - LOL). It was getting late & almost time to stop taking pics so the owner could get the club ready to open. Was I gonna pose? Could I even make it look like I knew what I was doing? Would I look sexy while trying to figure out this pole dancing thing? 

Well, a really cool friend lent me her cool, kick-ass stripper boots & I put together a little outfit. The lights were bright & yes I was nervous. But, everyone was cool - not many people were in the room so I was able to test things out without attracting alot of attention. As soon as the camera started flashing - I was into it! Twirling, posing - yeah - it was soooo fun!

So, why do I describe this experience with a title of “freedom?” Because, I am now confident enough with who I am to be able to let go & have fun without worrying about what others are thinking. To me, that is real freedom. I can have fun, show some tits and ass, get a little crazy on the dance floor and still look at myself in the mirror & not be ashamed of who I am.

Pole dance - shake that ass - spread those legs, slide up and down the shiny pole & have a good time! I didn’t have a care in the world. It was one time I can really remember being truly in the moment when usually my mind is going in 20 different directions at once. The only other thing that can give me the same feeling of being free is on the back of a motorcycle - but I’ll have to take that topic up at another time.

So, for now, I am off to search the web for a stripper pole for my house - when I get one, you’ll have to look me up & I’ll cam for you .

Well, swingers are often asked, “what made you guys decide to try swinging?” A frequent answer is “pillow talk.” That is sort of how we got started. In an earlier blog I mentioned a tv show on the subject. It wasn’t the first show we’d watched about swapping, but it was the first one that really got us talking about actually trying it.

What actually made us take the leap & try? Probably a combination of things. Probably an approaching mid-life crisis LOL. I was nearing 40, my kids were getting older & I think I was scared of growing old. My husband is 4 years old than I am, so he was closer to old age than I was . He also confessed later than he was afraid I would get restless & curious & go looking elsewhere. His thought was if we looked together, we’d stay together.

Now, I have never really even thought about looking elsewhere. I definately didn’t think about GOING elsewhere. But he wanted to - and that got me curious. Besides, he always was looking at porn on the internet. It used to make me mad, but once I saw a swing site, I figured we could look at porn together. I guess the saying is right - if you can’t beat ‘em, join ’em.

Little did I know that a few years later, I would literally join ‘em - with my own porn site! LOL. Talk about a shock - from backward, prudish girl to an open (though I can still be shy when you first meet me!), sexy woman. Boy, I could never imagine 40 would be so good! What was I afraid of??????

I can’t remember when I first heard the word “fetish.” I do know it was in the context of talking about feet. This was many years ago, before I knew all about the world of porn. According to Wikipedia, in popular culture a fetish generally means a sexual preference which is perceived as unusual. A foot fetish is one of the more common fetishes. There are many, many others, as a quick search on Google will teach you.

When I received my first e-mail from a fan discussing my feet in detail, I decided to include feet pics in some of the shoots for my website. I get quiet a few referals from some websites, such as Hawks Feet Links & I try to take these fans into consideration as I pose for pictures.

The whole idea that I have fans who like to look at my feet illustrates the feeling of freedom & empowerment I get from posing for my site. Why? Well, I hate my feet LOL. The are small & chubby. My toes are chunky & I don’t like the look of my toenails - but hey, that’s just me. It is so nice to know that, while I don’t like them - others do. Some even think they are sexy - and that is too cool.

Sexy is as sexy does. Women like me, who are short, curvy, & carry a little extra padding are just as sexy as the mainstream (think Playboy) models whose images defined sexy when I was growing up. When others said posing for men’s magazines was disgraceful, I always said if I had that kind of body I’d show it off.  I’m glad I realized there are those out there in webland who think my body type is sexy.

I have learned after meeting many people in the swinging lifestyle, that sexy is all about attitude! Hell Yeah! Sexy is as sexy does, for sure!

Well, am I? LOL. If you take what it stands for (mother I’d like to fuck, of course) literally, then I guess I am. I have 3 kids, & guys (and even girls) tell me they’d like to fuck me.

But, I don’t call myself that. I don’t use the term on my website, either. Why? Well, for one, I think the term is a bit overused on the web. Another reason - have you taken a look at some of the websites out there that do use the term ”MILF”? The models on the sites I’ve seen aren’t exactly what I think of when I think of moms. I know, I know, there are women out there that gain 50 pounds during pregnancy, have no stretch marks & manage to lose all of their baby weight (and then some)! And - YES, LOL, I am jealous. I never looked like any of those models before I had kids .

That is one reason I love the amateur site I am on - Southern Charms. Here you can see women of every age, shape & size! Thin, curvy, athletic, BBW - you name it. It really is a great place to perve the human body in all of its glorious variety!

My amateur website has been up for almost 3 months now. I often am asked why I choose to pose naked on the internet. For me, the answer is an easy one - I absolutely LOVE the attention.

It’s funny, because for the first 40 years of my life, I didn’t want anyone looking at me. I had no confidence, at all. My husband had been telling me for years that I had great tits, a nice round ass, and a cute face. At 40, I finally started to believe him.

He and I had started talking about swinging after watching a segment on Oprah. I don’t know if it was a mid-life crisis or what, but he thought we should try it - and I was curious, too. You see, up until then, he had been my one & only. We googled “swinging” and and found a swinger’s website. We created a profile & posted a few pictures. 

It wasn’t long before we began receiving emails admiring  my boobs. That’s all it took - I was hooked. I officially became an attention whore - :D.